Best Crystals to Attract Love & Self-Love

July 26, 2019 Blog, Crystals, Love

Best Crystals to Attract Love

Crystals have been collected and used for centuries for various reasons, by people all over the world. One of the most common reasons people start collecting crystals is to use them for attraction, and for good reason. When it comes down about your love (or potential love) life, how can you let a chance pass you by? You have to use everything the world has to offer to your advantage when it comes down to the power to reunite you with your soulmate. Crystal power can support you significantly if you know how to use it.

Crystals have been revered for their amazing healing properties, as well as for magical and spiritual objectives too! Healing crystals can support and facilitate attraction both for you & to you. Not only that – they are confidence-boosting and attract success, money, people, or the object you are seeking. While incredible, crystals must be used with caution.

There are also what’s called ‘loopholes’ in magic. You can have all the magic and positivity in the world surrounding you, but if you don’t know how to wield this power it won’t be of use to you. To avoid these loopholes you must be specific in your request – whether it be for someones attention, attraction, for money or for overall confidence. Don’t just ask for someone’s attention. Ask that this specific person will start to see you in the way you desire. Instead of asking for money (and then finding a quarter,) ask for a specific amount, or specific date you need this by. The world works in mysterious ways – don’t ask for too much or it may just ignore your request. Ask for what you need, be specific, and use these crystals to your advantage.

Rose Quartz

Both beautiful, as well as unique, Rose Quartz is one of the first crystals that come to mind for love and attraction. Not only does it attract self-love, but it also helps draw new love to you, or deepen existing connections.
A piece of rose quartz under your bed will encourage new love or renew existing love connections, depending on your intention. You can also place a piece of rose quartz in the ‘relationship side’ of your home, which is located in the farthest right rear side from the front door.

Also called ‘the heart crystal’ and the ‘crystal of love’ because it can help establish a link with your heart chakra – the Anahata. Through this bond, rose quartz slowly but definitely helps you get personal contentment and fulfillment. This is one of the main reasons rose quartz is one of the best crystals to attract love. On top of that, Rose Quartz is used to help heal past trauma, as it’s a stone known for its ability to promote feelings of peace and harmony.

Advantages of Rose Quartz

Rose Quartz is one of the most advantageous crystals known at this time. It is believed that some of the most important advantages are it’s healing features. Because Rose Quartz links directly with your Heart Chakra, its power goes into every nook and cranny of your soul and Anahata. It nourishes you, and no matter what form of heartbreak you have experienced in your life rose quartz will help you on your journey to mend those wounds.

Rose Quartz crystal is not just a crystal for love, it helps heal heartbreak. It also helps you find the connection you’ve been looking for. Whether you’re looking to meet someone new, or you have someone in mind, this crystal for love can help.

How to Use Rose Quartz Crystal for Love

Put the crystal out overnight on the full moon, or in a window that gets moonlight. Carry some with you when possible. Be direct, and specific with your wants and desires. Take a piece of paper, write down the name of the person you want on it, and envision your life with this person. The love, the passion, the completeness. Fold the paper 4x, and place it underneath the Rose Quartz either in your bedroom or in the ‘relationship side’ of your home. Do not grow impatient – when you see the Rose Quartz you need to envision your life exactly how you want it to be. This is also true if you are looking to increase self-love and self-worth.

Black Tourmaline

Black tourmaline is a strong crystal for protection against bad energy of all types – including EMF protection and psychic protection. Also a powerful spiritual grounding stone, also known as ‘Schorl’ as it attracts optimistic attitudes as well as happiness and luck, regardless of the circumstances that you find yourself in.

It is one of the most famous crystals to be used for metaphysical objectives.
They are amazing healing crystals for you to use as they bring relief from:

  • Body aches and pain
  • Immune system deficiencies
  • Arthritis
  • Stress
  • Depression

These black crystals make a favorable approach to life and are beneficial aids to both the expert healer and the average person.
Tourmaline helps you detox, both in physical health and mental health. Often times, those who wear it (or keep it in their home) are looking for it to not only ward off negative energy, but also to help them with an overall healthier lifestyle and outlook.

How Black Tourmaline Helps With Attraction

Black tourmaline is generally not one of the main stones used for attraction, but I’ve found it to be incredibly useful in this regard! If you are at your best mentally, you will attract those around you who are also at their best. You will be able to better feel people around yous energy, and will make a better judgment on if these are people you should keep close to your heart. Black tourmaline wards off negative energy, helps improve mental and physical health, and can help you get rid of toxic people in your life. I’d say it’s a great crystal to help you increase your overall ‘attractiveness*’ as well as help your love life!

*I believe that attractiveness is self-defined. I do not mean a generic form of ‘attractiveness’ to try and appeal to other people, I just mean however you find yourself to be at your best.


Aquamarine crystals are absolutely charming stones with energy that heightens courage and helps clear communication.
By helping you to release anger and decrease worry, it may help you make the right changes in your life. Aquamarine can help you embrace change, which in a new love-life is definitely a necessity. When you’re combining your outlook with another person, compromise to an extent is necessary and something you should be conscious of.

These wonderful stones are strong help with self-healing, and they have powerful metaphysical features that help you to let go of old emotional problems you may be holding on to. They are helpful healing crystals for you to use to help to relieve worry as they will also aid you to pick the tension around a specific problem.

How Aquaramine Helps With Attraction

You may see a pattern here. Mental health is such an important part of attraction, and before you can attract someone else to you, you need to have self-love. You do not want to become co-dependent on someone else, or attract someone who has too many demons they’re currently dealing with. Find someone who’s demons play well with yours. Get yourself to a healthy mental state, and you will find you’ll be happier with yourself as well as with who you’re attracting. Communication is also of key importance with relationships. Even more important than communication is understanding. Aquamarine is a crystal that will help you with both communication as well as understanding, and for these reasons, I recommend it as a crystal for attraction. Keep Aquamarine in rooms you generally have conversations in, such as your living room or dining room, to promote communication and understanding.

Mangano Calcite

Mangano Calcite has a sweet power, with a vibration that is all about compassion, love, and forgiveness, and helps you to accept yourself and your actions. These pink stones help you to let go of experiences from the past, mainly where you still feel grief or anger about something that occurred.
Stones in the calcite family all have some similar features, and they amplify power. With that being said, Mangano calcite is pretty different from other types of calcite as it has manganese as part of its mineral make-up. This supports you in feeling more self-confident, and experience a higher level of self-esteem and self-worth.

How to Use Mangano Calcite to Help With Attraction

Like previously written, improving your confidence level will help you improve your overall attractiveness and aura, and in turn, will attract the same person to you. Carrying this stone with you is good, but even better, place it near a picture of you that you like in your home. Placing this crystal near a picture that was taken during a time you were happy and confident will help you feel the strong vibrations you felt while that picture was taken.


Jade is known to bring both prosperity and luck. It was valued in very old China not just for its vibrant color, but also its capability to bring luck and fortune. This is a stone that you can drop in your loose change dish, or keep your monetary papers for an included boost of positive power.
This stone works with your heart chakra, to support you keep your wish for wealth in balance with your own touching desires. It will keep your goals in balance, with both attraction and with overall fortune. Fortune does not always refer to wealth – and in this case it is used mostly for its luckiness. With so many people all over the world, who are all on different paths, with different goals, and different experiences? it may just take a bit of luck to not only find but also attract the person you seek.

How to Use Jade for Attraction

The most recommended use for Jade (when using it for love and attraction) is to wear it! Purchase or make a jade bracelet, or keep it somewhere you are frequently (such as in a pouch, or on the rearview mirror of your car) to take advantage of it. Make sure you still cleanse it regularly, or keep selenite around so it stays cleansed and you can use it for its full potential.

You + Attraction

This list is just a guide and is informational about some of the stones I’ve found that help in various ways of attraction. I get comments all the time about how people are only attracting ‘scrubs’ or someone they aren’t interested in. Part of this is just part of life – but sometimes it’s because we don’t realize the energy we’re putting out into the world. If you have an energy that is down, negative, and self-loathing, you will attract people who are in the same boat or who are looking to feed off of your help. Many people find it easier to help others than it is to help themselves, so they get caught in a constant cycle of trying to ‘fix’ other people. Work on yourself.

No one is perfect, but you will find yourself much happier and surrounded by better people if you help yourself to a proper mindset and outlook. Crystals can definitely help with that without you even realizing it.

Other crystals for love that also help with attraction include:
Moonstone – Because of the spark and passion it brings to the bedroom
Kunzite – As it helps with communication and keeping an open mind
Rhodonite – It promotes adventure and spontaneity

There are many different choices on what stones can be used to attract love. Whether it?s self-love, or love you share with someone else, crystals can help aid you along your path and with your journey.

Which crystal have you found to be most useful in your journey? Let us know in the comments, or on Instagram @Wandering.Moonchild.

I wish you all the love and success on your path to love. If you want additional help, please reach out to me with any questions or schedule a tarot reading to gain insight on your path.

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